The Lamborghini immediately burst into flames, KTLA reported.
This is most toxic of all feelings and we will do anything to avoid it – because shame is the opposite of love.
Our marriage can’t have been so bad that you needed to escape and if it is why are we still together? Once bitten, twice shy In other words, you can remember (at least at the beginning) but every detail gets such an explosion of anger, bitterness and betrayal, so you don’t want to go there again.
So you tell yourself ‘more details will set us back’ and deliberately shut up – to ‘protect’ yourself and you tell yourself your marriage too.
So they opt for first and everything gets worse and worse until it comes to a head and they metaphorically leave the relationship by having an affair.
Other self-medicating behaviours – which block out pain – include drinking too much, street drugs, immersing yourself in porn etc.