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These extra dynamics can be frustrating, but should not be ignored or overlooked.

Pressuring your children to like your date and going too fast for them to get comfortable with the situation, will create unnecessary trouble.

Don't allow them to find out about your sexual relationship.

That doesn't mean a relationship with a single mom or dad can't be amazing, and that you can't enjoy it, but dating someone with kids is completely different than dating someone without kids.

Being in tune with what a single parent is thinking and feeling can help you understand, accept and truly enjoy the relationship more. Or, you can just constantly be disappointed and frustrated. If the divorce is recent or going on, he or she might seem distant at times. There are so many factors that could cause a divorced person to have low self-esteem, and therefore be holding back a bit. Dating someone with kids requires a person to be flexible and not have to make plans 10 days in advance. Getting involved in his or her divorce is a huge mistake.

So, that's where I come in--a single mom of two pre-teens. Jumping into a serious relationship is a lot easier for those who have never been married and/or who don't have kids. No one understands the impact of going through a divorce except for those who have gone through it. If you realize that it's not YOU, it will help YOUR self-esteem, and you won't be thinking he or she isn't interested in you. Because, any single parent can tell you that schedules and kids' activities get switched around every hour. If he/she vents about her ex or cries or tells you what a jerk he is, don't make the mistake of hating the ex, too. If you love him or her, you have to love the children, too. You really have to want to be a stepmom or dad or you shouldn't be with that person.

"Time is the biggest obstacle," says Honoree Corder, the blogger behind The Successful Single Mom and author of a book by the same name."There are already so many demands on a single parent's time, taking time out to date can feel like a luxury they can't afford.

Of course it is, as long as you do it responsibly, and your children are not disrupted by your dating.

Single parent dating involves finding a quality person you like, who likes you, and who is comfortable with your children.

They want to just sit in a room and cry or hug their kids all night while watching TV. Again, don't take it personally if they seem distant. She also writes feature stories, along with the weekly dating and relationships column, Love Essentially" for Chicago Tribune Media Group local publications.

It is an extremely emotional time and that person needs to heal.

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