You’re basically fucking yourself: You slowly increase the size, so that you keep the depth and width you’ve achieved.” This process takes six months.“And then you have to dilate once a week for the rest of your life, unless you’re having sex,” Nomi continued.Is it more important to focus on the nerve endings in your clit, or do you want a lot of depth? “I was in bed for a month, and after that, there’s a dilation process,” Nomi said.
It helps you to not feel so fucking alone, basically.
“So now when I’m not having sex, it’s kinda sad, because you’re really reminded of it.
You’re like, ‘Oh, God, I have to dilate now because I’m not getting laid.
I’d rather not enjoy sex than live this way.’”Nomi had SRS five years ago, in her mid-20s.
“The conversation with my doctor beforehand was hilarious, because it’s sort of customized,” Nomi said. Like, are you a lesbian, are you interested in being penetrated? Go for gold.’”Like any major surgery, there is a lengthy recovery period.